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Hey, this blog is for all you people out there on tumblr who just need to talk. I find it easier talking to someone I don't know, about things, rather than someone I know, so I thought this would be a good idea. I do allow anonymous comments of course! I understand you don't want people knowing your problems. I will answer everything I get, it doesn't matter how silly or stupid you think it is, I'm here to talk to any of you. I hope I help with all your problems.
If you ask me questions off anon I WILL ALWAYS answer them privately. :)
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 Anonymous Asked: Hey. I'm the one who had the problem w/ my mentor. Thank you and You were right. He came around and all after giving him a couple days of space, but now he keeps questioning why I'm pushing him away. And I still can't deal well w/ him leaving. Him leaving is more than enough reason to push him away, isn't it? Is it possible to want somebody as your father so bad that it pains the hell out of you? That’s good! I’m glad it turned out. Just talk to him and tell him his leaving is hurting. You could just say that you wish he’d be around more. I know the feeling of wanting someone in your life but the more you try, the more it seems they stop caring. Talking to him about it might help. But really you’re doing nothing wrong. It’s not you, it’s him. <3 Anonymous Asked: 17,girl. i want my ex back. all of his friends say that he misses me but he wont do anything about it. should i try to talk to him or wait until he comes to me? No don’t wait. If you want him go to him. <3 You can work together to fix things. <3 Anonymous Asked: Hi, im really need your advice. i like a guy. i really like him. but he has a gf already and they're dating for 4 years already. he told me that their relationship is kinda boring right now. he wanted break up from the girlfriend, but the girl didnt want to break up with him. his gf really over protective. we cant talk much and texting actually. cause his gf checking his phone everytime. we just met each other twice actually. but seems like he dont care about me. should i tell him my feelings ? If he’s got a girlfriend you can’t make a move on him. You have to wait. What if you were with him and some other girl didn’t like you and tried taking him from you. It might seem like the perfect plan in the end but someone will get really hurt. And that’s just not fair to do to him, her, or yourself. Maybe things will work out later down the road but for now you just have to wait. I’m sorry. Good luck to you dear. Anonymous Asked: 16 Girl. I have been in sort of a long distance relationship, and I had strong feelings for this guy for awhile but they aren't there anymore, I just kind of came to the conclusion that we are both looking for entirely different kinds of relationships. He doesn't want a serious one and I want a stable, and serious relationship. I don't know how to end things with him though. Any advice? Just tell him what you told me. That you are looking for something else. That you want something serious. I think he’ll understand. <3 Do it as caring as possible. Good luck my dear Anonymous Asked: Hey, i was the one asking about being annoying earlier- anyways, it doesn't happen all the time but I have this one guyfriend that is nice but very blunt and sarcastic by character. And when I talk a lot he says I'm annoying. It isn't often but it totally breaks my heart when he says that to me :( Aw darling that’s so sad. :c I’m sorry. Don’t let him get to you. I don’t think you should let one person’s thoughts effect you too much. I’m sorry he’s a jerk but he’s not worth your time if he doesn’t think you’re wonderful. <3 Anonymous Asked: Yesterday I found out through a friend that my boyfriend cheated on me. He was drunk at a party and a girl kissed him and he went along with it. I know I need to confront him about it but I can't because he just left on a week trip. His friend who was at the party told me what he saw and asked me to keep his name disclosed. I'm confused because my boyfriend hasn't told me anything about it. I saw him before he left and he still acted sweet and loving towards me. Can this be forgiven? You can move past it, maybe you can forgive. But it was hard for me to move on. Then again alcohol wasn’t a factor in my story. I’m sorry this happened. If you really do love him, you can get through this. <3 Sat,
Jun. 02, 2012 1 note Anonymous Asked: i just want to die Me too my dear. But we have to stay strong. <3 We have to. For what reason, I’m not sure yet. Maybe family and friends? Or the future? Who we’ll impact in our lives. We have to be strong. <3 Anonymous Asked: 13, girl. i know that i am thin. but i want to be bony. i run, and i try to eat well. but when i start eating i pretty much can't stop. i guess I'm a binge eater. but i also will starve myself for a day. its really out of hand and i just wish i was skinny. please help me through this i don't know what to do. anything that i eat i feel guilty and fat about. Dear I’m sure you’re beautiful. Don’t say that. Just please. It’s becoming a big problem. Maybe you should talk to a professional. If you don’t want to do that come off anon and We’ll actually talk. About real stuff okay? I’ll help you and tell you you’re beautiful every day if you want. <3 I’m here to help. But know I’m not licensed and have no idea what doctors would do. I can promise they won’t tell you your beautiful every day, but they will help you in some other way. You have a lot of support. I’m here for you Anonymous Asked: I havent been out to see people in nearly a week, i just stay at home and do nothing and cry. my friends dont really make any effort to contact me unless they want something and dont reply to my texts. my two closest friends have asked me before to come and hang out with them and their friendship group, but I feel like i'm really awkward and no good and making friends, im really self conscious and have no self esteem but im too scared to tell anyone how im feeling because its so stupid Dear you can’t please everyone, but you have to for yourself. You’re not as bad as you make yourself out to be. I’m sure of it. <3 I know it’s hard to believe when people tell you you look better then you’ll allow anyone to think, but maybe they are telling the truth. Maybe they see something you cant. <3 You need to find that. Find something you love about yourself. One thing. For me, it’s my eyes. So when I see myself or I think of how ugly I am I can say well at least my eyes are nice. And I feel better. And I want you to try that too. <3 Just one thing. you can do that. <3 Good luck my dear. Anonymous Asked: There's this guy and he's my best friend, but he's been sending mixed signals to me for months. We have this friends with benefits relationship too, but sometimes he acts as if we're a couple. Everyone is always saying we look as if we're going out. I'm not sure how he feels about me and I'm too scared to ask because of our friendship. Help? If you want things to stay the same, don’t talk to him about it, don’t tell him how you feel. But know that you’ll probably never be anything more with that person. But if you want to be with him, then you need to face your fears and talk to him. Tell him how you feel. Forget how he may or may not feel and just think about your feelings. If you want to be with him, go for it. I think you should. Good luck darling. <3 Anonymous Asked: What do you think is an appropriate age difference between a man and a woman? Me and some friends have been debating this:) It doesn’t matter about actually age. It matter how mature they are. Me and my ex were 5 years apart and I didn’t see a problem with it at all. It really depends on who it is. <3 Sat,
Jun. 02, 2012 1 note Anonymous Asked: hi im the 14 year old who didnt have originality? i cant find 'stumbleupon' anywhere! Aww! It’s good to hear from you dear <3 http://www.stumbleupon.com/ There you go my dear. I think it will inspire you :) Anonymous Asked: I'm 19 and female. My issue is that I'm not totally over the last guy I was seeing, but one of my good guy friends kissed me last night and I'm not sure what I should do! Give it some time. Take it slow. Spend more time with this guy and in time you’ll move on. <3 Don’t keep ‘hooking up’ and rebound off him. Good luck :) Anonymous Asked: F 17. The guy I like (a good friend) told my best friend last night he thinks I'm cute and that we're "crazy compatible", but my personality didn't click. I'm a little confused because we hangout a lot and he's been giving me mixed signals for months. Well stop worrying about what he feels and focus on how you do. You say you like him but you didn’t click? So does that mean you don’t like him? You just think he looks nice or something? I don’t know. You need to figure out what you want and go for it. Don’t worry about how he feels because you’ll never know unless you get him to say it. :P Good luck my dear. <3 Anonymous Asked: I'm 14 and female.I always see girls wearing shorts and they've got really nice legs; they're thin and they're hairless. And my problem is that I'm black and my hair grows really thick and dark. And I used to shave my legs but it takes so long and I started getting these marks on my legs. So I tried to get some advice and the person told me to ask my mum if i could go and get my legs waxed but my mum doesn't agree with shaving your legs (I think she knows I do though) so what should I do?help :) Well shaving is a pain. I only shave my face (I’m a guy if you didn’t know) And when I was younger I didn’t because it was too much of a pain. But I looked even worse. And that’s saying a lot coming from me. So one day I just figured I had to. Everyone does it and I have to as well. So now I shave pretty often. I think you have to do the same. There are ways to make it easier like nair or whatever that’s called. But I think shaving is best. <3
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